got a clue?
so work boyfriend talked to someone, probably a girl, who clued him in. or else he reads this blog.
today he said, "i know you're like a guy in the way you date and i don't want to suffocate you or anything...but if you want to grab dinner this week, let me know. and by the way...you're hot, not cute. i changed my mind."
the timing was a little late but the sentiment was there. i told him i was free for dinner any night this week. he picked friday (eek! a weekend night!), but i said that was fine. i might not have mentioned it but this guy, his hobby is fine dining. every amazing/new/crazy expensive restaurant there is in this city...he's been there.
hooray for a man with good taste....in food AND in women.
posted by jazz @ 8:41 PM
11 people who played with me:
OK... he needs a lesson.
1) You don't confront a woman about other men they may date. You assume they do until the woman says otherwise.
2) Too assess her interest level you should pick weeknights for dates instead of weekends (Are you worth being out with when you have to get up early in the morning).
He had a lame "You're hot" come back. negative points there. Instead he should have just come up to you and said "Hey gorgeous"
After the sucking and biting you did (previous post) he should have step up his kissing. Hell if it was me I would have taken the hint for the full on kissing championship.
... and I thought I was clueless
jon: totally agreed on the kissing thing. he did not step up to the challenge. as for the date night, i definitely see a weekend night as being more valuable than a week night. me giving him a weekend night is me sacrificing a weekend night of going out and being a happy single person. it's a bigger sacrifice. now to see if he's worth it ;)
bugger it would totally suck if he reads your blog because its like your place to talk about everything and have commenters to help out. and if its a girl that told him thats still not cool you totally need to find out everything he knows!
Wow. Does anyone else see the imminent disaster here? Jazz, come on. I'm a hopeless romantic and I see this ending in absolute catastrophe.
Now if you can just get to the clothes ripping off stage...
let's just pray he gets better at kissing...
eh, at least he's trying to correct himself. but you know commenters will give it to you straight.
i say see what happens. he may need a few nudges in the right direction, but it all comes down to what he does in a tricky situation. you'll have to wait and see about that.
good luck, jaz.
Would you consider it a good thing or a bad thing that he reads this blog? Well, either way, at least he's getting a clue. I say, if there is no chemistry on Friday night, then you should end it. It's time this guy proved himself, you've given him a lot of chances.
OK... I think he reads this thing! Hehehe!
He's got to read this blog. Everyone else does. :)
Lots of men have great taste in food and women. The real champs can cook, but given your Jamie Oliver fascination, you don't need me to tell you that.
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